1- Romantizm \u015fartE\u011fer “Beni sadece romantik bir ili\u015fki mutlu eder’ diye bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla hayata bak\u0131yorsan\u0131z, daha \u00e7ok bakakal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc romantizm, her ko\u015fulda, her durumda, hayat\u0131n her d\u00f6neminde insan\u0131 mutlu edemez.2- y\u0131llar boyu ihtirasBir ili\u015fkide yak\u0131nl\u0131k, sevgi, sayg\u0131, g\u00fcven, uyum gibi kavramlarla a\u015fk, cinsellik, ihtiras gibi kavramlar bir arada y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclemez. E\u011fer ayn\u0131 heyecan\u0131, ayn\u0131 a\u015fk\u0131, ayn\u0131 cinselli\u011fi 30 y\u0131l sonra da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz. Mutlu olmak i\u00e7in ili\u015fkiyi oldu\u011fu gibi kabul etmek daha do\u011fru.3- A\u015fk\u0131n tek sahibiYazara g\u00f6re tek bir “a\u015fk’ veya “sevgi’ bi\u00e7imi yok. \u0130nsan her \u015feye a\u015f\u0131k olabilir. A\u015fk zamanla \u015fekil de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Bir \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in a\u015fk, el ele tutu\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken, bir gen\u00e7 i\u00e7in cinselli\u011fi \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabilir. T\u0131pk\u0131 a\u015fk gibi, cinselli\u011fin de farkl\u0131 boyutlar\u0131 var. Bu nedenle ili\u015fkinizi birtak\u0131m “kurallara’ veya “kal\u0131plara’ oturtmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n.4- Teknik tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131”Her i\u015fin bir tekni\u011fi var can\u0131m. Kitapta okumad\u0131n m\u0131?’ diyenlerdenseniz, il\u015fkiniz \u00e7oktan bitmi\u015f demektir. Her ad\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kitaplara g\u00f6re atmaktan vazge\u00e7in. Herkes i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli olan belli kal\u0131plar, kurallar yok. Bunlar yalan!5- Hayranl\u0131k iddias\u0131Bir insan, partnerinin her \u015feyine asla hayran olamaz. Onun 1-2 huyundan nefret ediyorsunuzdur. Yoksa, di\u015f macunu t\u00fcp\u00fcn\u00fc tam ortas\u0131ndan s\u0131kma veya kredi kart\u0131yla bol bol al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f yapma gibi huylar\u0131 ona daha fazla hayran olman\u0131za neden olur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
1- Romantizm \u015fartE\u011fer “Beni sadece romantik bir ili\u015fki mutlu eder’ diye bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla hayata bak\u0131yorsan\u0131z, daha \u00e7ok bakakal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc romantizm, her ko\u015fulda, her durumda, hayat\u0131n her d\u00f6neminde insan\u0131 mutlu edemez.2- y\u0131llar boyu ihtirasBir ili\u015fkide yak\u0131nl\u0131k, sevgi, sayg\u0131, g\u00fcven, uyum gibi kavramlarla a\u015fk, cinsellik, ihtiras gibi kavramlar bir arada y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclemez. E\u011fer ayn\u0131 heyecan\u0131, ayn\u0131 a\u015fk\u0131, ayn\u0131 cinselli\u011fi 30 y\u0131l sonra[Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku…]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[229],"tags":[1507],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2494"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2494"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2494\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}