Cinsel T\u0131p Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Dr.Cem Ke\u00e7e evlilikte mutlu olman\u0131n s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131 Ke\u00e7e \u00e7iftlere Emir c\u00fcmlesi kullanmay\u0131n yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 ve su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 olmay\u0131n rolleri payla\u015f\u0131n ileti\u015fime ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fa \u00f6nem verin, k\u0131yaslamay\u0131n cinsel hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 renklendirin e\u015finizi de\u011fil kendinizi de\u011fi\u015ftirin \u00f6nerisinde bulundu <\/p>\n
K\u00fclt\u00fcr anlay\u0131\u015f ve davran\u0131\u015f farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n evliliklere zarar verdi\u011fini belirten Ke\u00e7e \u00c7iftlerin kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6zemedikleri her t\u00fcrl\u00fc problem ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 terapistiyle beraber anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm yollar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeleridir dedi \u00c7iftlerin \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011funun birbirilerini fazla tan\u0131madan duygular\u0131n\u0131n etkisiyle yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131p, her \u015feyin toz pembe gidece\u011fi hayaliyle evlendi\u011fini anlatan Ke\u00e7e bununda mutsuz yuvalar\u0131n kurulmas\u0131na yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade etti Ke\u00e7e E\u015flerinden ayr\u0131lmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen veya anla\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in mutsuz olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden bu \u00e7iftlerin ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmaz olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri sorunlar b\u00fcy\u00fck oranda karakter k\u00fclt\u00fcr anlay\u0131\u015f ve davran\u0131\u015f farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r de\u011ferlendirmesini yapt\u0131 <\/p>\n
Sorun ya\u015fayan \u00e7iftlerin E\u015fim beni anlam\u0131yor E\u015fim \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fti Art\u0131k beni sevmiyor Daha fazla dayanma g\u00fcc\u00fcm kalmad\u0131 Evlenmeden \u00f6nce daha iyiydik ve Ne yapmam laz\u0131m bilemiyorum \u015feklinde serzeni\u015flerde bulundu\u011funu belirten Ke\u00e7e \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi <\/p>\n
Bu yak\u0131nmalar\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen ve evlenene kadar hi\u00e7bir problem ya\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden bu \u00e7iftler evlendikten sonra var olan her anla\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ac\u0131mas\u0131zca evlilik kurumuna ba\u011flama yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorlar Belki de Evlenmeseydik bunlar ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelmezdi diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar Ancak inatla\u015fmalar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ego tatminsizliklerini veya karakter farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n do\u011furdu\u011fu mutsuzluklar\u0131n\u0131 ve s\u00f6ylenemeyen \u00f6n yarg\u0131l\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar sonucu g\u00f6r\u00fclemeyen ger\u00e7ekleri evlilik kurumunun de\u011fil ki\u015filerin kendilerinin yaratt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmede de zorlan\u0131yorlar \u0130\u015fte bu nedenlerden dolay\u0131 evlilik dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n amac\u0131 \u00e7iftlerin kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6zemedikleri her t\u00fcrl\u00fc problem ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 terapist ile beraber anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm yollar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeleridir <\/p>\n
EVL\u0130L\u0130K KURUMUNU ZEDELEYEN NEDENLER <\/p>\n
Evlilik kurumu zedeleyen nedenler \u015f\u00f6yle s\u0131raland\u0131:
\n– \u0130leti\u015fim eksikli\u011fi
\n– Uzla\u015fmada g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck
\n– Kaynana sorunlar\u0131
\n– Erken bo\u015falma cinsel isteksizlik gibi cinsel i\u015flev bozukluklar\u0131
\n– \u0130lgi eksikli\u011fine ba\u011fl\u0131 duygusal tatminsizlik
\n– Maddi konularda var olan anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar
\n– Akraba ili\u015fkilerinde var olan problemler
\n– S\u00fcrekli tart\u0131\u015fma ve fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131
\n– \u00c7ocuklarla ilgili fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar
\n– E\u015fe despot\u00e7a h\u00fckmetme
\n– Alkolizm
\n– Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015fiddet
\n– G\u00fcven duygusunun zedelenmesi
\n– Evlilik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ili\u015fki<\/p>\n
Evlilikte mutlulu\u011fun s\u0131rlar\u0131 ise \u015fu \u015fekilde a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131
\n– Evlilik piramidine uyun
\n– Emir c\u00fcmlesi kullanmay\u0131n
\n– Yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 ve su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 olmay\u0131n
\n– Rolleri payla\u015f\u0131n
\n– \u0130leti\u015fime ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fa \u00f6nem verin
\n– K\u0131yaslamay\u0131n
\n– Sevgi sayg\u0131 ve g\u00fcven ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kurun
\n– Egosunu ihmal etmeyin
\n– Cinsel hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 renklendirin
\n– E\u015finizi de\u011fil kendinizi de\u011fi\u015ftirin
\niha<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Cinsel T\u0131p Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Dr.Cem Ke\u00e7e evlilikte mutlu olman\u0131n s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131 Ke\u00e7e \u00e7iftlere Emir c\u00fcmlesi kullanmay\u0131n yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 ve su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 olmay\u0131n rolleri payla\u015f\u0131n ileti\u015fime ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fa \u00f6nem verin, k\u0131yaslamay\u0131n cinsel hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 renklendirin e\u015finizi de\u011fil kendinizi de\u011fi\u015ftirin \u00f6nerisinde bulundu K\u00fclt\u00fcr anlay\u0131\u015f ve davran\u0131\u015f farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n evliliklere zarar verdi\u011fini belirten Ke\u00e7e \u00c7iftlerin kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6zemedikleri her t\u00fcrl\u00fc problem ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 terapistiyle beraber anlamaya[Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku…]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[229],"tags":[1669],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2655"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2655"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2655\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2655"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2655"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2655"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}