K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k dozunda oldu\u011funda ili\u015fkiye faydal\u0131 olabilir. Ancak a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k en mutlu \u00e7iftlerin bile sonunu haz\u0131rlar..<\/p>\n
\nKar\u0131 koca aras\u0131ndaki kavgalar\u0131n en \u00f6nemli sebeplerinden biridir k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k… Ancak uzmanlar k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n temelinde kaybetme korkusunun oldu\u011funu ifade ediyor. <\/p>\n
K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k kad\u0131n ve erkekte farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmakla birlikte sonu\u00e7ta kaybetme korkusu bask\u0131n… K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ayr\u0131ca tek bir duygudan olu\u015fmuyor. \u0130ntikam, korku, endi\u015fe, \u00f6fke hatta bazen \u015fiddet gibi duygular da k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa e\u015flik ediyor. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattaki ufak tefek k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar her iki taraf i\u00e7in de pek bir sorun olu\u015fturmamakla birlikte \u00fcst \u00fcste geldi\u011finde ya da k\u0131s\u0131tlay\u0131c\u0131 bir hal ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda profesyonel yard\u0131m almak en do\u011frusu…<\/p>\n
K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k s\u00fcrekli sevdi\u011finiz insan\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, onun hakk\u0131nda baz\u0131 senaryolar \u00fcretmek, her an ‘acaba beni aldat\u0131yor mu’ \u015feklinde kendi kendinizi yemek haline geldiyse, durum ciddi demektir. <\/p>\n
K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k dozunda oldu\u011fu s\u00fcrece, var olan ili\u015fkinin korunmas\u0131n\u0131 bile sa\u011flayabilir. Ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131ndakine emek vermeye, onun kendisini de\u011ferli hissetmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermeye y\u00f6nelir. Ancak rahats\u0131z edici ve mant\u0131k d\u0131\u015f\u0131 boyutlara ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, \u00e7ok zarar verici olabilir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n etkilerini hafifletmek i\u00e7in yap\u0131labilecekler var. \u0130li\u015fki terapisti Paula Hall, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n etkilerini azaltman\u0131n sab\u0131r ve \u00e7aba gerektirdi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7mi\u015fin etkileri
\n\u00c7o\u011fu zaman k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131nda ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f k\u00f6t\u00fc tecr\u00fcbeler, \u00e7ocuklukta meydana gelen olaylar yat\u0131yor olabilir. Hatta bazen siz bile fark\u0131na varmayabilirsiniz. Bu durumda bir uzman psikolog yard\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6nem kazan\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklu\u011funuzla ilgili ba\u011flant\u0131 kuram\u0131yorsan\u0131z o zaman \u015fu noktalar\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmeniz faydal\u0131 olabilir: K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin. Onu neden k\u0131skand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Ger\u00e7ekten ili\u015fkinize y\u00f6nelik bir tehdit s\u00f6z konusu mu? Sizin tav\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z ili\u015fkinizi k\u00f6t\u00fcle\u015fmesine neden mi? Kendi kendinize telkin edin. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k belirtileri hissetti\u011finizde partnerinizin sizi sevdi\u011fini, size ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011funu ve size sayg\u0131 duydu\u011funu hat\u0131rlay\u0131n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k dozunda oldu\u011funda ili\u015fkiye faydal\u0131 olabilir. Ancak a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k en mutlu \u00e7iftlerin bile sonunu haz\u0131rlar.. Kar\u0131 koca aras\u0131ndaki kavgalar\u0131n en \u00f6nemli sebeplerinden biridir k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k… Ancak uzmanlar k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n temelinde kaybetme korkusunun oldu\u011funu ifade ediyor. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k kad\u0131n ve erkekte farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmakla birlikte sonu\u00e7ta kaybetme korkusu bask\u0131n… K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ayr\u0131ca tek bir duygudan olu\u015fmuyor. \u0130ntikam, korku, endi\u015fe, \u00f6fke hatta bazen \u015fiddet gibi[Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku…]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[229],"tags":[1829],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2815"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2815"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2815\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2815"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2815"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2815"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}