\u00e7ocuk ve Gen\u00e7 Psikiyatrisi Uzman\u0131 Osman Abal\u0131, anne babalar\u0131n genel anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n, iyi bir \u015fey yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fu maddi anlamda \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmek oldu\u011funu belirterek, \u00e7ocu\u011fa verilen en iyi \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme, maddi de\u011fil duygusal \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmedir dedi <\/p>\n
Abal\u0131, hayat\u0131n ilerleyen a\u015famalar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fiminin baz\u0131 y\u00f6nlendirmelere ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funu ifade ederek \u015funlar\u0131 kaydetti: <\/p>\n
\u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u015fekillenmesinde, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n, do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ve onaylanmas\u0131 gereken tav\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilmesi \u00f6nemlidir. Nas\u0131l ki istenmeyen davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ve yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n kalmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in cezaland\u0131rma y\u00f6nteminin uygun \u015fekilde uygulanmas\u0131 \u00f6nemliyse, ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme y\u00f6nteminin de uygun kullan\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00e7ocuk e\u011fitimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n
\u00e7ocu\u011fu \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmenin derecesi ve \u015feklinin, ya\u015f ve ailenin durumuna g\u00f6re genelde de\u011fi\u015fiklik g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini anlatan Abal\u0131, s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc: <\/p>\n
En iyi \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme, maddi \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme yerine duygusal \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmedir. \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu t\u00fcrl\u00fc bir \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmeye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 da olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. Anne babalar\u0131n genel anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fa maddi hediye ve bir \u015feyler alman\u0131n sanki en iyi \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmeymi\u015f gibi alg\u0131lanmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu \u015fekilde devaml\u0131 bir \u015feyler al\u0131nmaya ve verilmeye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan \u00e7ocuk ise G\u00fcn gelecek en iyi ve en pahal\u0131 hediyelerle bile doyum bulamayacakt\u0131r. Ama anne babas\u0131n\u0131n ok\u015famas\u0131, kucaklamas\u0131, gezdirmesi, onunla oynamas\u0131, ona g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6ylemesi \u015feklindeki \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme ise en Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve en ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmedir.<\/p>\n
Verilen s\u00f6z\u00fc tutun <\/p>\n
Anne babalar\u0131n bu t\u00fcrl\u00fc bir duygusal \u00f6d\u00fcl\u00fcn yan\u0131 s\u0131ra imkanlar\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcnde ek hediyeler vermesinin de \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmenin di\u011fer yolu oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7eken Abal\u0131, Anne babalar\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklara al\u0131nan hediyelerde maddi b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck yerine, manevi de\u011feri \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131karmalar\u0131 uygun olur. Baz\u0131 anne babalar bunu yapsa bile g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn t\u00fcketim toplumunda \u00e7evresinden ve arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan etkilenen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 y\u00f6nlendirmek anne babalar i\u00e7in hayli zor olacakt\u0131r dedi. <\/p>\n
Anne babalar\u0131n \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmeyi belli bir hedefe ve ba\u015far\u0131ya y\u00f6nelik yapmalar\u0131n\u0131n, o hedeflere ula\u015f\u0131lmay\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiren Abal\u0131, verilen s\u00f6zlerin de kesinlikle yerine getirilmesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00e7ocuk ve Gen\u00e7 Psikiyatrisi Uzman\u0131 Osman Abal\u0131, anne babalar\u0131n genel anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n, iyi bir \u015fey yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fu maddi anlamda \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmek oldu\u011funu belirterek, \u00e7ocu\u011fa verilen en iyi \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme, maddi de\u011fil duygusal \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmedir dedi Abal\u0131, hayat\u0131n ilerleyen a\u015famalar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fiminin baz\u0131 y\u00f6nlendirmelere ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funu ifade ederek \u015funlar\u0131 kaydetti: \u00e7ocuk davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u015fekillenmesinde, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n, do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ve onaylanmas\u0131 gereken tav\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilmesi \u00f6nemlidir. Nas\u0131l ki[Devam\u0131n\u0131 Oku…]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[229],"tags":[1959],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2942"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2942"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2942\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2942"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2942"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gncz.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2942"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}